Every colour we are

Every colour we are...

Falling in love is definitely one of the best experiences in life, although it can also be very painful, or in some cases, even traumatic. But it definitely is one of the most beautiful experiences ever, and it makes you feel things that you probably never imagined you were capable of feeling…

Now, a lot of people tend to go into details, when differentiating between the “different kinds of love” or the differences between “liking and loving someone”…which is understandable, but what they don’t understand sometimes is that while they are so busy analysing and labelling what they feel, or think they feel, they forget to focus on the feeling itself, and enjoy the moment. 

My sister mentioned a quote, cannot find it now, but it went something like this: “you probably fall a little in love with every person you meet”.

And I agree with that…No matter where we are in life, we will meet some people, who we will come to love. Maybe as a friend, more than a friend, as family, as a lover, as someone who is interesting and fun, or someone we know we can never have…

And because of the choices we make in life, or the reality we live in, we are not able to live out every wish we have. We may love some people, but never really be with them the way we wish to… We may love and end up in a reality which is better than everything we ever dreamed of.

But every time we love, it’s like giving away a bit of yourself, of your own free will, and not always hoping or expecting the love to be returned. Sometimes, when I just love someone for who they are, I have this feeling of contentment, because even if they don’t know, I’m just happy loving them in my own way…

And society sets so many boundaries when it comes to love: You can only love one person at a time, otherwise you’re a slut (just giving an example). What the hell are they talking about??? We meet so many people every day, so why is it forbidden to fall a little in love with some, a lot with some, or just completely fall in love with that one special person when you do find him or her??? Who are you to tell me what my heart can feel or not at any given time?

I guess what I am trying to say is that it is ok to love more than one person at any given time, because most of the time, it holds true that you don’t really love two people with the same intensity. Some you will love a lot, some little, and some not at all… Someone will be your soul mate, others will just be interesting people whose paths cross with yours, for a little while, or a longer time… It’s amazing how many different ways there can be of loving someone, and just how much our hearts can feel…

And it’s sad when we are restricted by any number of factors, to love others. 

So, if you’re reading this, I want to tell you something which I hope might be of some help to you at some point in your life: When it comes to love, don’t over think things, listen to your heart… Try your best to not feel guilty about loving someone or something, because it is one of the purest emotions you can experience, and share with others… 

Love with all your heart…

I know it’s difficult in a lot of moments, because of whatever restrictions, but for the most part, I hope you are all lucky enough to feel your own emotions without having to hide, deny or repress them… 

Who cares if you love a living person, a fictional character, a celebrity, your best friend, someone of the same gender, someone you thought you hated… If you love them, then you just do…

Embrace it, and see where it takes you… Although it can be very destructive, when you pay attention to your feelings, it can be a very interesting and worthwhile experience…

And, don’t have any regrets when you look back on your life… Every thing happens for a reason, and so does love…

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